Between where you are, and where you thought you’d be right now.
Not worse, not better, just different. A lateral gap, not a vertical.
We can look at it in two ways – one is we fell short, we didn’t have the strength, or, we lacked certain attributes.
The other way to look at it is that a unique set of values and strengths shifted us in a different direction or trajectory.
What makes us who we are was the driver of the gap.
What would it look like to double down on this?
What would it look like to leverage these strengths or unique characteristics?